Have you ever loved someone so much only to discover that they don’t love you the same way you love them? What about being so crazy about someone, wanting them to be someone that they’re not, waiting, wanting, hurting only to realize that that’s not who that person is and may never be. Like a virtuous woman. A woman of integrity. A woman that has eyes and a desire for you and ONLY you. It hurts to let go. It hurts to see the very thing you wanted to build a foundation with want something/someone else. Oftentimes we want that special person to come packaged a certain way, but when that person does arrive, it isn’t what we were expecting. Many say that beauty isn’t everything, it’s the heart that matters, but if she isn’t what you expected, can her beautiful spirit, heart, and personality complete you in an external sense. Maybe her booty isn’t as phat as you would like, or her breast isn’t as plump as you’d like. Maybe you’re significant other lacks in this area or that, but would do anything to ensure your happiness. Would that be enough or do you need more? Everyone wants to be loved, and every woman wants to be seen, heard, and paid attention too. Are you receiving that from your significant other? If not, what adjustments need to be made? Are they willing to make them? What about you?
Personally, I see life as a moment in eternity. God has blessed us with much, but whether we’re thankful is another issue. No, I don’t want to be the man who’s with every woman but loved by none of them. Being that I know what I’m looking for, I don’t hold onto something that’s not for me. Signs… THEY ARE TO BE PAID ATTENTION TOO!!! If it’s causing a problem or cycles or patterns are changing in the home, behaviors, etc, then it may be time to reconsider.
Are you open to true love however it may present itself? Are you really? What if this man/woman was in prison serving a life sentence? Healthy, handsome, intelligent (a clear picture of self), would you hold onto that? Would you wait on him or her? No, you may not know if its real because they’re in here, but you don’t know if its real out there either, right? Many people say all the right things or play on a desire until they get what they want and then they move on, right? We all have experienced that at some point. Deception has many faces, so the question is this… What do I want and what am I willing to sacrifice to obtain it???
Love is an action word… it demands that we show it!!! Consider this…. You’re reading this for a reason.. Of all the sites and things you could be doing in the world.. Here you are.. on my page. I just hope someone can feel me out there. Then again, I know y’all do because people attempt to fill voids everyday to no avail, and there’s a lot of questions that remain unanswered. When you finally meet that person, you will know its them if you’re paying attention. Are you ready for that? Age? Its the wisdom, the ability to make productive decisions, the heart, and a made up mind is what matters. Age is numbers running wild, so don’t get it twisted.
While growing with this person, love them with every fiber in your being, and love them for who they are and NEVER judge them, because tomorrow you could be on trial!!! Life is funny like that.
Remember… True love is discovered in unusual places at times, so be open to it. If you are closed off to the reality of the saying, then that’s a door that you will continue to stand on the other side of. Damn… its lonely over there. One Luv.