Reflection of self is Hard to do, Seeing the faults and weakness. Seeing them yourself is not what other people see, it does not matter what they see because it’s you who must stand on who you are, for what you do and say. In understanding life what it is, what we can not do and what we can do is not strength or weakness, Its being part of the flow of life is it not. If we all were the same then what would make us special or what is the point of being in a loving relationship. In the early days arranged marriages had a better life span then when two people who come across one another and fall in love. The chemicals in our bodies trick us into seeing a perfect person before us and over time the feeling fades away and then one day you wake up like who is this and where am I at. Just sometimes the current in Life connects two People who are truly Soul Mates, But one is damaged and the other does not know how to help that person or the other does not allow them to help them. Then we get pain, sorrow, remorse, and regret about the story of what Life has become for so many people. Materialism is why so many people are truly alone Now!